Even if your identity gender wise is socially derived, even if it comes from abuse, even if your dissonance is just social, even if you identified one way and identify another way now
You’re still valid, you still have value, your needs are still important and no one has a fucking right to tell you that your gender isn’t real and isn’t important or should be negated.
You exist now. Your existence is what it is now. Fuck anyone who shits on that.